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How to set goals and REACH them!

Hey everyone! I’ll try to keep this short.

No promises.

I see a lot of singers setting goals, and I love that. Truly, because goals matter.

But here’s the brutally honest part: a goal without a plan is basically a daydream wearing a cute hat.

“I want to record an album.”
“I want to write a cabaret.”
“I want to finally learn how to read music.”
“I want to fix my breathing.”
“I want to stop panicking when I sing in front of people.”

Beautiful! These are all fantastic goals, and I love them!

Now what?

Because the goal itself is not the work. The plan is the work.
So let’s take this example:

“I want to create an album of 6 songs.”

That sounds exciting, right? It also sounds vague enough to disappear into the fog if you don’t actually build a structure around it. Here’s what you need to do.

1. Write it down.

Notebook. Computer. Vision board. Sticky note on your mirror. I don’t care if you write it on a napkin with a dying pen in your car. Just get it out of your head and into the real world. I personally use Goodnotes because I can access it from all my devices, and because apparently I enjoy pretending I’m organized. But the tool doesn’t matter. The commitment does.

2. List the actual steps.

This is where most people bail, because this is where the fantasy becomes practical.

Are the songs original or covers?
What genre are you working in — jazz, pop, R&B, musical theatre, something else?
Do you already have arrangements?
Can you record anything yourself, or do you need to hire musicians, a producer, an accompanist, or an engineer?
Are you releasing this on Spotify, YouTube, your website, or just creating it as a personal project?
Do you need artwork?
Do you need rehearsal time?
Do you need money set aside?

Be specific. “Make an album” is not a plan. “Choose 6 songs, finalize keys, schedule recording dates, hire a pianist, rehearse weekly, record by October, release in December” is a plan. See the difference? One is a wish. The other has legs.

Then choose a time frame.

Six months? One year? Two years? Pick one.

And yes, put it on the calendar. Not in your “someday” folder. Not in the magical mental junk drawer where good intentions go to die. The calendar. Because if it’s not scheduled, it’s optional. And optional usually means ignored.

Now be realistic.

This is the part nobody wants to hear.

Do you actually have the time, energy, money, and focus to work on this goal right now?

Not the fantasy version of you. Not the version of you who wakes up at 5 a.m., drinks lemon water, journals, works out, and somehow has three extra hours a day. The actual you.

If the answer is yes, great. Put weekly action steps on the calendar.

If the answer is no, that does not mean you failed. It means you need to adjust the timeline like a grown adult instead of silently shaming yourself for not doing the impossible. Move the date. Shrink the goal. Break it into phases. But don’t lie to yourself. That helps no one.

Keep the goal where you can see it.

On a mirror, desk, car, fridge, practice binder, phone wallpaper. Wherever your eyeballs regularly land.

You need the reminder because life gets loud. And your goal will absolutely get shoved behind laundry, emails, errands, self-doubt, and whatever fresh nonsense the week throws at you.

Put it in front of your face.

Talk about it.

Tell people you trust.

Not the people who will poke holes in it because they’re uncomfortable with ambition. Tell the people who will say, “Great. So what’s the next step?” Speaking the goal out loud makes it more real. It gives the thing weight. And yes, it can feel vulnerable. Do it anyway.

Finally, get accountability.

Some people are great at keeping themselves on track.

Some people need someone else to lovingly say, “Cute excuse. Now what did you actually do this week?”

There is no shame in needing accountability. Most artists do. In fact, accountability is one of the biggest things you get from working with me in the studio. We don’t just talk about what you want. We figure out what it takes to get there, what’s getting in the way, and what you need to do next.

Because vague goals don’t create progress.
Specific plans do.

And your goal doesn’t have to be recording an album. Maybe it’s writing a cabaret. Building an audition book. Learning to read music. Improving your breathing. Singing with more confidence. Preparing for a show without panic-cleaning your entire house instead of practicing.

Whatever it is, stop keeping it as a cute little idea floating around in your head. Write it down. Break it apart. Put it on the calendar. Tell someone and get help staying honest. We all could use a little accountability now and again…

I’ve created a worksheet to help you do exactly that. Click below to download it and start turning the goal into something you can actually work on.

And yes, I know I said this would be short.

I lied. I got excited. It happens.

If you’re ready to stop talking in the abstract about what you want and actually build a plan for it, reach out to me HERE.

Let’s talk about your goals and make them real.

You can also sign up for a free 30-minute session on me.

 

10/24/2024

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